
Of all the words of mice and men, the saddest are, “It might have been”.
Kurt Vonnegut
I don’t have New year’s resolutions but I have self-care goals for this New year.
Self-Care Goals For 2019
- If things feel wrong, I won’t pursue them or do them.
- I will say exactly what I mean without worrying about other people’s opinions. I will project my voice so that it is heard whilst being respectful.
- I won’t be a people pleaser. As someone who is extremely empathetic and altruistic, I tend to put other people’s needs before my own. I will put own needs before others’ needs for the first time.
- I will trust my intuition.
- I won’t speak badly about myself.
- I won’t give up on my dreams. No matter how long it takes me to achieve something or if I face hurdles that slow me down.
- I will be kind to myself.
- Letting go of things I cannot control.
- Not being afraid of saying No.
- Not being afraid of saying Yes.
- Staying away from drama and negative people.
- Learning from bad experiences and bettering myself.
- Loving life and what it has to offer me.
- Loving all the people in my life and knowing when to walk away if a relationship fails.
- Most importantly, trusting my own journey and believing in myself.
What are your goals or plans or self-care goals for 2019?
Please feel free to comment below.

Stop acting so small. You are the universe in ecstatic motion.
Jalaluddin Rumi
Thank you for being with me. I look forward to seeing you here again soon. Let us rebuild a healthy state of mind.
Love,
Francesca
I should make some of those my goals. Happy New Year.
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Feel free to make some of these goals your own :).
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Thank you š
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I love all of these, especially #3! Thank you for sharing!!
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Thank you for reading :).
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This is just what I needed, right now. Thank you for inspiring me. Happy New Year!
Much love! ā¤
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Thank you. Sending you lots of love! ā¤
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Great goals! We all should consider these self care goals for ourselves! The biggest is enemy we face is often the person in the mirror! Thanks for sharing!
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I love this Rumi quote!
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Thanks for Sharing! I feel like this should be my new years resolutions.
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HAPPY 2019 AND A GREAT YEAR AHEAD š
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Thank you. Happy New Year, to you as well. I wish you a prosperous year ahead! š
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These are some great goals! I have a few of them that I need to follow as well!
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These are great! Thank you for sharing!!
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Great list. Self care is so important.
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Loving the goals for 2019! šš»ā¤ļø
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These are great. Happy New Year!
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Happy New Year, and thank you for posting this, its just the inspiration I needed š
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Happy New Year and may 2019 brings you all the best!
It’s mostly all the goals you have mentioned. I can add some:
– Keep exercising as a life style and habit.
– Take care of my heart.
– Be happier and live more.
– Doing something great and extraordinary…
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Thank you so much for sharing.
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These are great goals. Iāll really be trying to stay away from drama and negative people too! As Iāve gotten older, Iāve realized the truthfulness of Proverbs 13:20 āThe one walking with the wise will become wise,But the one who has dealings with the stupid will fare badly.ā We become the company we keep.
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I love these! This year I’m working on a lot of self care goals as well. As I’ve said to myself, 2019 is the year of focusing on myself. #5 hit home for me and I need to work on being kinder to myself.
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Great list! You’ve inspired me to start reevaluating my own goals.
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These are some really great goals š Learning to say no, and being kind to yourself can be really hard to do I find!
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As someone who has struggled with anxiety and people pleasing my whole life I found this really relatable. I also made a list of self-care goals for this year with main theme being āto stand up for and love myself firstā. Very difficult for me but so freeing.
If my cup is empty, how I possibly hope to fill yours?
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