Isolation: A New Thing for Some

Isolation: What to Know for Those not in the Know

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In our new reality of “stay at home” and “shelter in place,” many people are doing something they never thought they would do in their lifetime–isolate yourself from society.

Isolation comes with who I am as an introvert, and I feel I have been training for this for my entire life. I wondered how to go about writing this post. Isolation from society, especially since in most areas it is cold, there is an importance of knowing what to do in these situations. As with everything on this blog, these are my own things that have helped me and are nearly suggestions in these troubled times.

Isolation can be dangerous and so it is important to recognize certain signs that can lead to depression and even anxiety.

  • One of the most important things is to get sunlight. Just because you are asked to stay inside, don’t be afraid to go outside and enjoy a little bit of sun. I have found that one of the most essential things when isolating is to get plenty of sunshine, the lack of sun can lead to depression or even anxiety.

  •  Staying in Touch. I have heard stories of people getting online and having group discussions. There are plenty of sites out there that you can gather socially online. Just because we can’t gather with more than six people at a time in person, we are living in the most technologically advanced time. Reach out, especially to those that might be alone. Grandparents are a big group that may have no one. A phone call and an hour of your time could save someone from feeling total isolation.

  • Total Isolation is dangerous. If you live alone, no matter what age, this type of isolation can be dangerous. One of the things to avoid, no matter the situation, is to not stay in bed for too long. Yes, it is a comfortable place to work or go to school from home, but beds should be for sleeping. One of the things I learned over my experience of almost 13 years living the mental illness is to separate yourself from your bed when isolation from society is required. Create a work station or get a place outside of your bed to work and do things. Beds should be for sleeping.

  • Mental Health Days. I may slightly contradict myself, but another vital thing during these times when anxiety is at an all-time high is to take a mental health day. This could mean curling up with a good book and a blanket on the couch and maybe the bed. Mental health days suggest taking it easy and letting your batteries recharge. Perhaps it is working on a car, doing meditation, or yoga. Maybe its all these things that can be done at home. Take up knitting! Just know that all work and no downtime in isolation can be harmful. Just watch The Shinning–“All Work And No Play Makes Jack A Dull Boy.” Writing is my own form of getting through anything. Also listening to music.

  • Be kind to those who still have to go out and work. In these times of overbuying everything in sight, it is always important to remember that healthcare workers, ambulance drivers, police officers, firemen, people working in the grocery business, and pharmacies are already overcrowded. Be kind. If you have to be out in the world, be safe. Hand sanitizer is always good to have around. Thank the people if you have to come across them for having to still be out there with the risk of exposure because these people are essential. Be patient, and try to not be rude. I am sure plenty of these people would rather be anywhere but at work.

Right now that is all I have other than reach out if you need someone to talk to in these times. Stay safe. Isolation can be hard time but we can all get through it together.

Always Keep Fighting

James

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15 Replies to “Isolation: A New Thing for Some”

  1. Some awesome tips James as a carer to my 85 Yr old nan I get the old person feeling isolated thing.

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  2. As a writer, I’m used to a certain amount of self imposed isolation. Also, introverted. It’s almost a relief sometimes to not “have to” do things. My writers group was planning an open reading, which I agreed to participate in, as I know I need to support the groups efforts. But honestly, I’m happy not to have to read in public. Yet.

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  3. Wonderful post, thank you so much. It’s weird but this pandemic seems to be in someways bringing people together. We are indeed lucky that we have all these tools at our fingertips to communicate with one another.

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  4. One of your recommendations on isolation “taking a mental health day” rings true to me above the rest. Especially true, though not exclusively, in regards to the pandemic we are currently experiencing today. This is causing an increase in personnel stress, fear, anxiety and worse-thought scenarios due to runaway imaginations.

    A mental health day should (must?) include censoring your daily negative input in order to give your mind a needed break. To give it time to reboot, refresh and time to reprocess and regain a true perspective of the issues happening around you.

    Yes staying in touch socially may alleviate feelings of isolation but social media is a double edged sword often the carrier of stressful news. A one day avoidance of social media and the devices that carry them will shut down this negative news from the outside world. This practice, even if for only one day, will greatly censor your daily negative input and help give your mind the needed break it needs.

    And in today’s world of continuous worrying news — we all could use a healthy mind-break now and then. — Interesting post James!

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